Why do I keep dating the same way?
A 16-question, 3-minute attachment-style analysis. Unpack your love pattern across 4 types.
- 16 questions · 3 minutes
- 4 styles — secure, anxious, avoidant, fearful
- Anxiety/avoidance graph + compatibility
- No sign-up, anonymous
⚠ For entertainment · Not a scientific assessment.
Frequently asked questions
Hazan & Shaver's adult attachment model: Secure (balanced intimacy + independence), Anxious (high need for closeness, fear of abandonment), Avoidant (high independence, avoids intimacy), Fearful (both high).
Yes. Many people gradually shift toward secure through secure-partner relationships, self-awareness, or therapy. Use this result as a starting point.
Both take it, share results, and check the 4×4 compatibility matrix — even classic patterns like anxious × avoidant become visible at a glance.
It is a shortened self-report estimate inspired by ECR-R. Not a clinical diagnostic tool.
Yes — surfaces patterns from past relationships and flags what to watch for in the next one.